She, Mary, is the great expectation for women in Marianismo. They will be pure, virginal, loving, and dedicated to lives outside their own. Often, to their own expense.
What ‘Marianismo’ Looks Like: Traits of the Ideal Latina
Marianismo, a term that was first coined by Evelyn Stevens in 1973, describes a gender-based expectation for women throughout Latin America.
Three Main Concepts of Marianismo
Marianismo can be framed through three main concepts:
SubordinatePureA good wifeA good motherVirtuousHumbleQuiet and not speak her opinionsDevoutly spiritual
The Health Impact of Marianismo
Marianismo has an overall negative mental health impact on women. Not only is Marianismo tied to higher rates of anxiety and depression, but it also cultivates a culture of self-silencing where women withhold their thoughts, opinions, and emotions, with this being perceived as better for the family.
Self-Silencing Leads to Poorer Physical Health
According to Karen Jakubowski, a Postdoctoral Fellow at the University of Pittsburgh, the impact of self-silencing is not restricted to just one’s mental health. A study of women (who were between the ages of 40 and 60 and self-silenced), found that they felt like they could not express themselves in intimate relationships and had a 14% higher chance of showing plaque in their carotid artery. Plaque like this could lead to cardiovascular problems, including heart attacks and strokes.
How Marianismo Relates to Machismo
Marianismo has a dyadic relationship with Machismo which is the social construction of masculinity across Latin American and Spanish cultures. Machismo cannot exist without Marianismo, with Machismo formulating attitudes regarding how women should perform. The virtues of women under Machismo parallel the definition of women who ascribe to Marianismo.
Marianismo and Violence
Marianismo is inherently and inarguably sexist. It contributes to the gender gap across Latin American countries and societies.
Gender-Based Violence
Women are conditioned to be passive and self-sacrificing–not empowered. Consequently, they are more likely to be targets of gender-based violence. Femicide, or the murder of women because they are women, runs rampant throughout Latin America.
Latinas Are Fighting Back Against Marianismo Culture
Women raised in Marianismo culture are fighting back. For instance, in Argentina, women speak out against gender-based violence with a protest movement called #NiUnaMenos (“Not One Women Less”). If you are in immediate danger, please call 911. Mexico has followed suit, with its #UnDiaSinNosotras (“A Day Without Us”) campaign. During this protest, women walked out from their schools and jobs for 24 hours to show what society would be missing if women were not there.
A Word From Verywell
While Marianismo has been embedded into LatinX culture, many people are pushing back against it as it’s become evident how detrimental it is to women’s mental and physical health. You have the right to speak up for yourself, express your feelings, and explore your sexuality. Women do not have to be defined solely in relation to children and the men in their lives. If you’ve been affected by Marianismo culture, please reach out for help from a mental health professional or lean on your support system. It’s best to find a therapist who has a deep understanding of LatinX culture. LatinX Therapy has an extensive directory of LatinX therapists that speak both English and Spanish and are of varying genders, races, and nationalities. Therapeutic rapport is a must for successful treatment, so take your time and find someone you connect with. If you are having suicidal thoughts, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988. For more mental health resources, see our National Helpline Database.
