Meanwhile, emotion-focused coping techniques aid you in becoming less emotionally reactive to the stressors you face. They alter the way you experience these situations so they impact you differently. Many people think mainly of solution-focused coping strategies as the best way to manage stress. Cutting out the things that seem to cause us stress means we don’t need to learn how to alter our responses to any stressors—there will be none left in our lives! However, it’s not entirely possible to cut all stress out of our lives. Some factors in our jobs, our relationships, or our lifestyles are simply prone to creating challenges. In fact, it wouldn’t be entirely healthy to eliminate all stressors even if we could; a certain amount of stress is healthy.
Benefits of Emotion-Focused Coping
This is part of why emotion-focused coping can be quite valuable—shifting how we experience potential stressors in our lives can reduce their negative impact. Some key benefits of emotion-focused coping include:
You don’t have to wait to find relief: With emotion-focused coping, we don’t need to wait for our lives to change or work on changing the inevitable. We can simply find ways to accept what we face right now, and not let it bother us. It reduces chronic stress: This can cut down on chronic stress, as it gives the body a chance to recover from what might otherwise be too-high levels of stress. It can improve decision-making: It allows us to think more clearly and access solutions that may not be available if we are feeling overwhelmed. Because stressed people do not always make the most effective decisions, emotion-focused coping can be a strategy to get into a better frame of mind before working on problem-focused techniques.
Emotion-focused coping can help with both emotions and solutions. And the two types of coping strategies work well together in this way. While problem-focused strategies need to fit well with the specific stressors they are addressing, emotion-focused coping techniques work well with most stressors and need only fit the individual needs of the person using them.
Meditation
Meditation is an ancient practice that involves focusing attention and increasing awareness. It can have a number of psychological benefits, and research has shown that even brief meditation sessions can help improve emotional processing. Meditation also allows you to relax your body, which can reverse your stress response as well. Those who practice meditation tend to be less reactive to stress, too, so meditation is well worth the effort it takes to practice. Follow Now: Apple Podcasts / Spotify / Google Podcasts
Journaling
Journaling allows you to manage emotions in several ways. It can provide an emotional outlet for stressful feelings. It also can enable you to brainstorm solutions to problems you face. Journaling also helps you to cultivate more positive feelings, which can help you to feel less stressed. It also brings other benefits for wellness and stress management, making it a great emotion-focused coping technique.
Reframing
Cognitive reframing is a strategy that can be used to change how people experience events. For example, rather than thinking of something as stressful, reframing can help you shift your perspective and see it differently. In order to reframe stressful thinking, you should:
Notice your thoughts: Being more aware of your thinking can help you become more aware of how your thought patterns influence your emotions.Challenge your thoughts: Instead of accepting negative thoughts as facts, actively challenge them. Are they true? Are there other ways of looking at the problem? Replace negative thoughts: Once you’ve challenged your thoughts, actively replace them with something more positive and helpful.
Reframing techniques aren’t about “tricking yourself out of being stressed,” or pretending your stressors don’t exist; reframing is more about seeing solutions, benefits, and new perspectives.
Cognitive Distortions
Cognitive distortions are irrational thinking patterns that can increase stress, lead to poor decisions, and lead to negative thinking. For example, emotional reasoning is a type of cognitive distortion that causes people to draw conclusions based on feelings instead of facts. This can cause people to act irrationally and make it more difficult to solve problems. Become aware of common cognitive distortions, and you’ll be able to catch yourself when you do this, and will be able to recognize and understand when others may be doing it as well.
Positive Thinking
Being an optimist involves specific ways of perceiving problems—ways that maximize your power in a situation, and keep you in touch with your options. Both of these things can reduce your experience of stress, and help you to feel empowered in situations that might otherwise overwhelm you. One study found that actively replacing thoughts with more positive ones could reduce pathological worry in people with generalized anxiety disorder. Researchers have also found that focusing on positive emotions can reduce symptom severity in people who have emotional problems.
A Word From Verywell
Not all problems can be solved. You can’t change someone else’s behavior and you can’t undo a health diagnosis. But, you can change how you feel about the problem. Experiment with different emotion-focused coping strategies to discover which ones reduce your distress and help you feel better.
